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I have a headache, which means that this post will either be rambling or so full of thought that you wouldn’t believe I had a headache. Either way I’m sure it will be enjoyable. Come along for the ride.
I’ve been doing a lot of reevaluating my life lately. How I wonder if I’m working the [...]

There are tasks I just really don’t like. When Master assigns them but doesn’t give a time frame for completion they sit… and sit… and sit. I can’t wrap my head around the truth of the matter. Master requested that I do something for his pleasure, not mine. This is becoming the case with the [...]

It feels good to see Master getting his thoughts sorted out and that he has honored me by posting here. I’m so proud that he has claimed me and is helping me become who I’ve always wanted to be; comfortable in myself.
My exercise routine has just started but knowing that if I don’t exercise everyday [...]

I’ve had to learn a lot about courtesy and respect since I met Master. I am ashamed to admit that my family was rude, obnoxious and crude. I picked it up and didn’t bat an eyelash when I treated people poorly. I was described by my best friend as being harsh and without tact. I [...]

What can a Dom do to show control over a submissive whether they are live in or not? These ideas have to be keeping in mind that the submissive has to work and be visible in public. They also have to keep in mind male and female submissives.
My mind went nuts over each individual activity [...]

Dear Master,
Through a very active week and a full weekend I think we have been able to connect more often than recently. I’m so happy that you took the time out to give me the spanking I requested. I knew it would shift my mood to something more pleasing and the result was to both [...]

It’s been awhile since I posted a Letter to Master…. I still write them every Sunday. They have been disappointing to say the least. Hopefully, not any longer.
Dated 2-25-07
Dear Master,
I’ve been thinking about this letter all week. I hated that my recent letters have been lacking. There is so much that has changed in our [...]

Well, it’s not what I hoped for but there is some good in people that is so touching. I have an acquaintance at work; the person who covers my job if I’m not there. She came and picked me up Monday and yesterday while my job was in the shop. I was able to work [...]

Dear Master,
Well, so I have my new rules and I’m not really surprised.  I thought that they would be really challenging. Now I’m not saying these are easy at all! I noticed you have a theme of protocol this time. I really hope I can make you happy by following them as best as possible.
I [...]

So…
It’s been one month since I set my resolutions. How am I doing you wonder? I’ve got the update. It’s not that great really, but there’s always progress to be made, ya know?
The Personal Growth resolutions:

Brushing my teeth isn’t going well. I do about twice a week *sigh* How gross I know. This month I [...]

Since Saturday I have felt like I am living a different life. I’d like to attribute it to the newness of my reinstated collar, the preparation for new rules and behaviors and the very close decision of full time employment with my current employer. I’m really being a good girl I think. Master said the [...]

Dated: January 29, 2007
This is one day late. I have no excuse, I can only hope for your leniency. I didn’t even think about doing it. Opps!
I’ve been feeling really loved the past couple of days. You really did surprise me. In fact, I thought that when I discussed my break in trust during play [...]

First I want to say thank you to all the wonderful readers out there that congratulated Master and myself for the renewed collaring. We both greatly appreciate it and while I’d love to thank each and every one of you individually; there just isn’t enough time in the day. Thank you so much, from the [...]

“I want you to promise that you will try to be as good as you were today, everyday.”
“I promise I will try to be good everyday Master.”
Master has honored me today, I have honored him. He was full of pride for me, I’ve been good. He told me that I have changed and I’m not [...]

Dated: 11-08-06
Dear Master,
The BDSM presentation went quite well today. I’m always so glad to have you there as my support and cheering section. Thank you for being up early and coming with me.
We always enjoy talking with B. and this morning was no exception. There is so much I learn and pick up from her. [...]

How do you maintain your focus? Do you have a specific ’slave mindset’ you strive for? - from Kindlings
This is actually a huge challenge for me. I’m terrible at maintaining my focus and staying within that happy sub mind that I enjoy being in. Sometimes I think that that sort of mindset is impossible for [...]

Today I as awoke I had the feeling that I needed to take inventory on my life and the direction it’s going. I am unsure why, but I find myself thinking about it more often now that I am almost done with school and Master has regular jobs (although the payments for said jobs are [...]

One week ago I started dieting. One week ago I made a decision to loose weight and get fit, for health’s sake. I am now finding the stress of dieting causing emotional stresses on my relationship, physical downfalls in the bedroom, and a constant hunger I can’t ignore.
Master and I have been almost like silent [...]

Someday, hopefully soon, I am going to remember to address Master correctly. For about 2 weeks now, since the start of my new rules, I have been failing miserably. I am supposed to address Master whenever I ask a question, answer a question or reply to an order. I haven’t done a good job and [...]

Boy was yesterday a bunch of up an downs. I finally got my refund check, so I can get my bills paid. I will feel relieved when I can get the checks sent on Monday. Then of course I feel anxiety because the refund just isn’t enough to live on and pay the bills. I [...]