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Here is my list of newly discovered blogs within the BDSM blogosphere! I have found them very interesting and enjoyable to read. I hope you will enjoy them and feel free to leave a comment or two. You just may find a new favorite blog!
slave journal of the kiva
Laani’s Blog
Life of a kajira
The Masochist Coquette
Master [...]

Here is my list of newly discovered blogs within the BDSM blogosphere! I have found them very interesting and enjoyable to read. I hope you will enjoy them and feel free to leave a comment or two. You just may find a new favorite blog!
The Common kajira
Dark moonlight
Devil Sexy Blue Dress 2
Letters from a Seraglio
Taste [...]

Here is my list of newly discovered blogs within the BDSM blogosphere! I have found them very interesting and enjoyable to read. I hope you will enjoy them and feel free to leave a comment or two. You just may find a new favorite blog!
Alternative Albany
yummy musings
Educating Baby
One Life, Take Two
Her Owner…
Slave musings
Girl with Two [...]

I’m not doing so well keeping up with my blogging rule. I know that it will end up in the punishment book to be atoned for on Sunday. I was supposed to write a letter to Master on Sunday and I didn’t blog yesterday either. Now I’m writing to kinda make up for yesterday even [...]

Okay, so I’ve seen everyone I read post about this new Facebook style kinky community. I joined relatively early on but wanted to give it some time to grow before I let everyone know that I’m on it.
I’ve created a few groups and made some good friends. Come on over and enjoy the fun and [...]

I’m a stats whore. I love checking my stats almost 3 times a day (maybe more). I’ve watched my stats fall quite drastically since January. I’m not sure what has changed in my writing to cause it, but I know that I have a regular following and I have readers and commenters that I love. [...]

Dear Master,
This weekend was certainly full of a lot of fun! I had a great time at the munch and party. I hope that we will be able to play at parties in the future. I know I get floaty but there has to be a counter to it so that we can travel sooner. [...]

I hate bad news, but I’ve got some sitting in my back pocket that I’ve postponed sharing with you all. Master and I will not be going to Shibaricon. We just couldn’t come up with all the funds we need. I’m still down about and hopefully we can start saving early to attend next year. [...]

Ok, I know this really dates me, but OMG I just found out that the first boy band, the one I went through puberty with is back together, touring soon and will have a CD out this summer!! Yay! They have aged but damn are they still sexy!! New Kids on the Block!!!

Yesterday was a battle of pig-headedness. Neither of us was communicating well and neither of us got what we wanted because of it. There were so many times I wished we could just rewind the day and start over.
A bit of back story… Master asked for a blow job. He asked for a specific blow [...]

I have a headache, which means that this post will either be rambling or so full of thought that you wouldn’t believe I had a headache. Either way I’m sure it will be enjoyable. Come along for the ride.
I’ve been doing a lot of reevaluating my life lately. How I wonder if I’m working the [...]

Usually I have a Newly Discovered Blogs post today, but since I lost all of my scheduled posts for future posting I don’t have the list of new blogs!
So, if you have a blog that I have not added to my blogroll that you’d love to see in the sidebar for the next month, make [...]

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I. Mental Growth
VI. Behavior

II. Protocol
VII. Domestication

III. Physical Appearance
VIII. Creativity

IV. Sexual Training

IX. Ritual and Symbolism

V. Self Discipline
X. In the Dungeon

I. Mental Growth
Developing and maintaining the submissive mindset

Defining Myself Submissive
Discipline and Punishment
Give and Receive
Positive Attitude
Submissive Goals
Submissive Qualities
Submissive Triggers

II. Protocol
Master has very specific requirements for my manners [...]

I’ve not been feeling quite myself lately. I went to bed at 7pm last night, without dinner and slept albeit fitfully for the entire night. I’ve been having problems sleeping I’ve noticed but can’t pin down a source to my frequent waking at night. It’s never enough for me to get out of bed [...]

Orgasm denial and control is a well documented activity online; you can find all sorts of thoughts and opinions, how-tos and what nots from anyone and everyone under the sun. I’m not intending to add any more new ideas to this topic. Here are, in my opinion, a couple of the better written essays out [...]

Thank you everyone who commented on the Thursday Question about experience. It’s a challenging topic, to say the least.
Determining experience is a tricky for anyone. There are a lot of variables in deciding if you are experienced or not. I could say that I’m experienced in that I’ve been living in a D/s relationship [...]

Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at luna’s Journey. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like. If you’d like to participate in the discussion please leave a comment on this post, send me an email or post the response on your own blog!
How much experience do [...]

If you have been reading my blog you know that I’ve been working on revising my parent site, The Iron Gate. Well, the wait is over! I have debuted the site and hope that everyone will come on over and take a look at the new design, new method and the ease of adding your [...]

How should I behave when being punished and why my current behavior is inappropriate.
Punishment behavior is something I think is a learned behavior. As a child, you learn to cry and scream and pout, whine and all over be a terror whenever you are punished. At least that was how it was with me. I [...]

Master has suggested and then implemented a new method for my apology to him for forgetting a rule or any other infraction. He wants me to recite a phrase as an apology. “I was a bad girl Master, I’m sorry.” It’s something that is mildly humiliating to me and god I don’t want to get [...]