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Orgasm denial and control is a well documented activity online; you can find all sorts of thoughts and opinions, how-tos and what nots from anyone and everyone under the sun. I’m not intending to add any more new ideas to this topic. Here are, in my opinion, a couple of the better written essays out [...]

Yesterday was my one year anniversary of being collared. We hadn’t even noticed it until I saw the post in my memories sidebar area. I can’t believe a year has gone by. It feels like only a few months ago that he wrapped that piece of leather around my neck and I asked if I [...]

“The 12 Days of Kinky Christmas” by Unknown
On the 1st day of Christmas, my master gave to me…
A Small Feather Pillow for my knees.
On the 2nd day of Christmas, my master gave to me…
2 Nipple Clamps and a Small Feather Pillow for my knees.
On the 3rd day of Christmas, my master gave to me…
3 Blindfolds, [...]

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Hurrah for sex! My period is over and it’s time to catch up. I’m so looking forward to all the juicy sex I’m going to get. Master is never satiated. I think I’m going to have to give in before he does (as always) but I do know that I will be completely used. Hopefully [...]

Numerous times on this blog I have mentioned just how patient Master is with me. I’ve battled a lot of emotions and physical struggles when all he wanted was to play, tie me up and spank me. He’s been quietly waiting for me to be in the mood so that the sex and blow job [...]

We got so busy yesterday with friends after work that I didn’t get to blog like I should, I’m making it up now!
Master and I have the same discussions over and over. They are always about my failings when it comes to the  sexual ballpark of blowjobs.  You hear it on this blog all the [...]

Happy Labor Day everyone. I hope you used this unofficial last hurrah of summer for something fantastic.
I have been a good girl all weekend long.  I’ve followed all of my rules. I have bee sexually available and been used in every possible way he could imagine. I’m puss sore, ass sore, face fucked into object [...]

The nipple clamp training is going nowhere. I can’t get past 5 minutes. Master tried to lift the ring in the middle today and I about panicked. This isn’t fair. I want to please him and I want to be able to take more pain, especially in the nipples where he seems to get the [...]

The Thursday Question last week was: “What has been the hardest thing for you to accept in your Dominance/submission?”
No one answered the question but I thought that this would make an excellent topic for today’s post.
The hardest thing for me to accept has been that I am not in control of a lot of things. [...]

Sunday night… after anal sex and Master said he was worn out. I had an itch. It was an itch for some bondage sex. Oh god I wanted it. I wrote about my desire in my Letter to him, which he promptly read and turned to me with a semi-hard cock and a grin.
“So you [...]

Master and I had some wonderful sex last night. I’d go into details, but it was sex people, come on. The BDSM stuff is to come this weekend when I don’t have to get up and go to work the next day. THAT I may share with you if Master allows it. I am very [...]

It appears that all this time I thought I was pleasing Master ultimately lead to me being displeasing. Allow me to explain.
Upon becoming Master’s own he gave me the rule that I was not to come without permission. One that I have stuck to as a sacrament. I have never broken that rule. For me [...]

We had been talking about this day for over a week. Master wanted to schedule time to play. I was more than eager to play as well. I woke up this morning in the right mood as well. BONUS! I took a bath. Last night we got some special preview bath wash from Bath and [...]

Things are really looking up here. We are both working really hard the next few months, but at least there will be money to spare by the end of it. I will finally be able to get my divorce. Master will be able to get a better performance PC, and the bills will be paid [...]

I’ve been a very bad girl lately. It’s really inexcusable; as everything is with me lately. I’ve been disappointing, both to myself and to my love and Master. First, if you notice the date of this blog, I am quite late posting, as my rules state it is supposed to be every other day. It [...]

Master and I love sex. He loves it more than I do, but I like to blame his gender and age for that I can’t get enough of him and his body is to die for!
BDSM sex is much like regular sex, in fact if it were on film it wouldn’t look any different. [...]

Note: This post is not suitable for children.
I have shared with Master that if he wants sex today that he has to do it on a timer so that I can post every 30 mins. The time constraint can be a fun way to get a quicky in and no one will ever know. [...]

Note: If you want to be pimped this Blogathon, send me an email (not a comment) and I will take a look at your blog. If I like it, you get pimped. If not… well… I’m not as picky as that, it may just be a case of not enough time.
luna@the-iron-gate.com
This is to pimp JADE.
Jade [...]

I’ve begun to experience computer problems and while Master and I are sure it’s a hardware issue, we don’t have a clue as to what hardware it could be. We can’t afford to just swap pieces out as we try to diagnose so it may be that one day my computer will just die and [...]