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March Q and A: danae

danae asks: Name a couple guilty pleasures?
Chocolate Milk and Friday afternoon naps
Is there something you had before your life with your Sir that you don’t now but that you miss?
Yeah, I miss fast food. I have such huge cravings for Big Macs and shakes sometimes that it takes all my willpower to not get into [...]

[ More ] March 13th, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in Life |

Exercise Caning

Ok, so I don’t know what to write about so Master comments, “How about that you aren’t exercising like you’re supposed to and you’ll get caned like last week.”
Uh-huh.
I’m being bad. I hate caning and yet it’s not keeping from not doing the exercise. Anyone want to know why? Do I think that pain [...]

[ More ] March 12th, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in Role Dynamics |

Ask luna: Sudden Illness during Play

Leatherstrap asks me:
I played with a lady tonite who set out very clearly that she wanted to play rough - in fact she wanted to be brought to tears - She had a safe word which she didnt call but as the session went on it became apparent that she wasnt well - I stopped [...]

[ More ] March 10th, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in BlogMail |

Fire Play Fear and Crying

We had a very stressful talk last night. It involved what happens in scenes with us because almost 50% of them end sooner than one of us would like them to. We have crashed really hard when this happens. The issue has two parts. For the longest time I just attributed it to being new [...]

[ More ] March 10th, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in Playtime |

The Rebirth of a Group: NEIPEX

We’ve been planning to evolve the current munch group into a better more community friendly group lately and with that comes a lot of brainstorming sessions, a lot of work and writing and planning, policy work, topic ideas and dreams of being able to do it all and succeed. The current group as it stands [...]

[ More ] March 4th, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in Life |

Kink that is against my Morals

I have to say thank you to everyone who answered the Thursday Question this week about activities that give you pause. It was a tough one.
Activities that we engage in in BDSM are completely personal decisions and I feel that as long as everyone participating is aware of the risks and dangers then the choice [...]

[ More ] February 29th, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in Thursday Question |

Anal Training

Master would like to use my ass whenever he wants. He also has a plan to have me wear butt plugs on a regular basis to remind me of my place and prepare me for more frequent anal sex and play. A butt plug will allow me to relax better, faster, easier when he wishes [...]

[ More ] February 23rd, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in Sexual Expression |

Training

So a little while ago luna and I celebrated a year of her being collared by me. This seems like as good a time as any to start more intensive training in our relationship.
Most of you will probably think that 3 and a quarter years is a long time to wait before getting into the [...]

[ More ] February 19th, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in Protocol |

Playing With Fire

You all know the old adage “If you play with fire you’re going to get burned”. Well, as it turns out, this is entirely true.
For all of you who may be freaking out right now, no, I didn’t burn luna. I recently put all of my toy collection away in a nice bag and toolbox [...]

[ More ] February 14th, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in Playtime |

Valentine’s Day

I’ve been sick the past few days, some sort of stomach bug I can’t complain. It came on all of a sudden on Tuesday and I’ve had that icky feeling the past few days. I’m going to have to go to work tomorrow because I just can’t miss another day. I’ll feel so far behind.
I [...]

[ More ] February 13th, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in Role Dynamics |

Deep Throating and Swallowing

Tonight I am coloring my hair; at this very moment the creme is changing my hair from a dark brown to something auburn-ish. I haven’t colored my hair in over 4 years. I always had the perception that Master would want it natural. The fact that he went and helped me pick it out was [...]

[ More ] February 11th, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in Sexual Expression |

Submissive Triggers

As we both already know, I am not naturally submissive. I don’t have the need to serve and please everyone all the time and worst of all I don’t stay in the right mindset to please you all the time either. It’s a balancing act of love and trust and desire for you that brings [...]

[ More ] February 2nd, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in Behavior |

Submissive Goals

The goals of any submissive are as varied as the relationship as to which they tend. I’ve been given the task of naming the goals I currently have within my submission and then explain how I plan on working towards them. A daunting task indeed! I’ve really not given it much thought honestly before now [...]

[ More ] January 29th, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in Mental Growth |

Anniversary Bondage

Yesterday was my one year anniversary of being collared. We hadn’t even noticed it until I saw the post in my memories sidebar area. I can’t believe a year has gone by. It feels like only a few months ago that he wrapped that piece of leather around my neck and I asked if I [...]

[ More ] January 28th, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in Just Sex, Playtime |

Traits of a Great Spanker

From My Bottom Smarts Spanko Brunch: What traits make a great spanker?
A great spanker is as unique and individual as the spankee. When I was first exploring BDSM I couldn’t tell you the difference between one person’s play style and another. Now I can see it within moments of their first strike.
The traits I see [...]

[ More ] January 27th, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in Role Dynamics |

Florentine Flogging

Master has been practicing with his new matching set of floggers I made him for Christmas. The first time he used them on me was this last weekend at a play party. He told everyone that this was just practice and not a full fledged scene and that he wasn’t that good at it.
He started [...]

[ More ] January 26th, 2008 | 2 Comments | Posted in Playtime |

Being a Good Girl

Thank you so much to everyone that commented on the Thursday question about the praise, “Good girl.” I loved reading about your thoughts and emotions.
For me, good girl is the catch all phrase for high praise. You hear it alot in some relationships and rarely in others. I think Master and I are more in [...]

[ More ] January 21st, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in Submission |

Types of BDSM Relationships

Each relationship that we pursue is going to be unique and different. We can not compare one person’s dynamic with another’s even if we can agree that it is under the term of BDSM that we hold this relationship. In a recent comment on the post Speech Training there came up a need for me [...]

[ More ] January 16th, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in Role Dynamics |

Thursday Question #19: Safewords

Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at luna’s Journey. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like. If you’d like to participate in the discussion please leave a comment on this post, send me an email or post the response on your own blog!
Do you require a [...]

[ More ] January 10th, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in Thursday Question |

Immobility

After putting my wrist braces on I prepared myself for what Master had planned.
He handed me a couple ear plugs and explained that not only was I going to be tied to the bed using our new tie down points, but I was going to be thrown into sensory deprivation.  He secured thatdamngag in my [...]

[ More ] January 7th, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in Playtime |
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