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Christmas has once again come to us with reminders to give, and love and share the joy of the season with others. Here at home, I have been a rather grinch this year. There are no Christmas decorations up, I have no tree to put my dad’s presents under. My gift to Master was something [...]

Tracking Santa
Come track Santa during his global trip across the world tonight! Norad has hooked up a tracking GPS on his sleigh and will be following Santa as he delivers presents to boys and girls all over! There are lots of fun things to see
Norad Tracks Santa 2007 

Naughty on Christmas Eve
When I was 6 I asked Santa for a dolly for Christmas. I wanted a really neat doll. One that seemed realistic. I prayed very hard that I could have one of those for Christmas.
Well, turns out I couldn’t sleep the night through on Christmas Eve. I think all children have that [...]

Santa’s Elves
Another quirky little game that Mom would play with us as a kid was Santa’s Elves. I’m not sure if it started because Mom just couldn’t wait to give us gifts for Christmas or if it was something that she experienced when she was a child.
Ten days before Christmas we would start watching our [...]

The Mmm-Mmm Game
My Christmas’ as a child were filled with odd traditions and games my mom would play around the holidays. One of them was the Mmm-mmm game. Mom would wrap presents as soon as she bought them so that no one could discover them unwrapped and ruin it for themselves or another. So, presents [...]

Belief in Santa
Santa was so magical to me as a child that when I found out that he wasn’t real I didn’t admit it to myself or my parents for 2 years.  Things just didn’t add up after awhile. How could anyone live at the north pole? I’d seen pictures of the north pole and [...]

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Christmas Wish
story by luna
(This is fantasy, safety is tossed to the wind for a better story. If you intend to tie someone up, do not leave them unattended!)
KnyghtMare and Luna sat happily in front of the Christmas tree, looking at all the glittering presents. Christmas Eve was a special time and spending it together was [...]

A meme I’ve seen floating around…
1. Wrapping paper or gift bags? wrapping paper. I love wrapping presents!
2. Real tree or artificial? Artificial. I’m allergic to evergreen.
3. When do you put up the tree? The first weekend of December
4. When do you take the tree down? Weekend after New Year’s
5. Do you like eggnog? Love egg [...]

Christmas is somehow magical. It’s not just the chill in the air and the music piped into every nook and cranny. It has nothing to do with the decorations, the presents or the bell-ringers at the mall.  I don’t even think it has anything to do with religion. Christmas is about inspiring hope and peace [...]

So a lot of things have popped in and out of my mind today having to do with my birthday, getting older and how things have changed. I’m 30. There’s no getting past that. I feel like I’ve stepped over a hurdle of age and I’m hoping I don’t begin to feel it.
I was [...]

Norische has a couple essays that deal with warning signs of dangerous situations and people. This first one is titled: Red Flags, Warning Signs, and Intuition: Learning to Trust You Instincts - Part One: Dominants
She gives a few key things to look out for in Dominants that are bad news.

If someone submits to you [...]

From The Friday Five
What was the best gift you received?
The best gift I received was a batch of my best friend’s oatmeal cookies. She shipped them to me all the way from North Carolina. I’m expecting another batch this fall for my birthday as she knows that I love them and miss them (as well [...]

You’d think that with all the wonderful things in my life that I’d be looking forward to Christmas and the joy it brings, the unity of family and the wonders of the season. However, when I think of Christmas it’s depressing, lonely and sad. Perhaps it’s because we are staying at home this year, or [...]

Just 25 days till Christmas, and I’m starting to become an excited little naughty elf. I’m giddy whenever the kiddie Christmas cartoons come on, I’m planning on doing a little decorating this weekend and I hope to be able to give Master his first Christmas gift since we’ve been together this year. It’s gotten cold [...]

Yes this can be found elsewhere on my site, but what do you expect for countdown to end of ‘thon? It’s still theme important.

What does the BDSM Emblem mean?
The BDSM emblem has no “obvious” symbolism because it was created to be enigmatic. To the vanilla observer who would be put off by BDSM, [...]

I have now been flamed. Well, it’s by a famous flamer in submissive blog world so I’m not surprised. Someone felt the need to not like what I said about “submissives leaving the lifestyle” when 1. It’s a blog, not some text book or essay that someone is trying to shove down someone’s throat, 2. [...]

Well, I do have to say that the holidays were thankfully swift in passing. I was worried that my time with my dad would be difficult. I did have a bout of panic, but then I was okay. I am glad that Master was there with me to keep my composure.
I got a lot [...]

Tomorrow we leave for my hometown to stay with my father for the holidays. I can say now that I am very nervous and slightly uncomfortable with the time I will be spending with him. My childhood around him was not good, and after only a few hours in his presence I get all those [...]