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Keeping It Real: Fakers and Wannabe Lifestylers

So you’ve had a pretty nice talk with someone on chat and then they say something that doesn’t jibe with you. Does it lead you straight to think that this person is a wannabe? How do you know? There are several times that I’ve had to step back and ask myself is this person just [...]

VT vs. RT

From Submissive Journal Prompts:
“What one has not experienced, one will never understand in print.” -Isadora Duncan
I began my journey into D/s and BDSM in online chat rooms; namely those on IRC (BDSM-Net and Bondage.com). I knew nothing of what the lifestyle would be for me, only the fantasy that I lived when I got home [...]