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BDSM Myth: I’m Master/Mistress so and so, Everyone must respect me

This is an online phenomenon. People come into a chat room and the first submissive they see (uncapped nick)…
MasterLordDomSir: Down on your knees slave and service me!
littlesubbie: Um, pardon?
MasterLordDomSir: I’m a Master, been in the lifestyle for 20 years, I’m 32 and you will obey me.
littlesubbie: 20 years? You were 12 [...]

[ More ] August 7th, 2005 | 1 Comment | Posted in Blogathon 2005 |

Question by Anonymous: Are you allowed to say no to something?

It’s more than am I allowed to say no, I have a right to say no. I can say no at any time and stop whatever is happening. He also respects that there are times I just don’t feel like doing something and that also is reflected as a no.
Ultimately, a submissive has the power [...]

[ More ] August 6th, 2005 | No Comments | Posted in Blogathon 2005 |

BDSM Myth: People who practice BDSM are all promiscuous.

This is like saying that everyone who jogs drinks Gaterade. It’s just not the case. Everyone has their own preferences. There *are* those that are swingers or polyamorous on top of being in a D/s, BDSM relationship. It’s not a requirement though. My partner and I are monogamous and plan on staying that way.
Basically we [...]

[ More ] August 6th, 2005 | 1 Comment | Posted in Blogathon 2005 |

BDSM Myth: All dominant women are men haters and all dominant men are women haters.

So not true. If you develop a relationship with someone and are a m/f hater, then what results is abuse, not loving commitment and BDSM. Just like vanilla (again, non-BDSM) relationships you have to like the person you are with, and with a D/s relationship that is more powerful. There is the elements of trust [...]

[ More ] August 6th, 2005 | No Comments | Posted in Blogathon 2005 |

The most important aspect of BDSM

This is purely my opinion, and as it is my blog… well, you know the drill. Take what you want and leave the rest.
I belive that the most important aspect of BDSM is trust. In the beginning of a relationship one starts with nothing. You have to build all the aspects if you wish a [...]

[ More ] August 6th, 2005 | No Comments | Posted in Blogathon 2005 |

SSC: Safe, Sane and Consensual

SSC is the mantra that a large portion of the BDSM community live by. It outlines the idea of safety and care for the individual. This is what makes us so different than abusers.
S- Safe. The activities that we participate in should be safe. Each person must be knowledgeable about the activities and aware of [...]

[ More ] August 6th, 2005 | 1 Comment | Posted in Blogathon 2005 |

BDSM vs. Abuse

BDSM vs. Abuse- by Norische
This is an excellent essay outlining the differences of BDSM and Abuse in today’s society. These are some of the things you will learn in this essay.
BDSM is all about safety, both mentally and physically. People who practice BDSM do so consensually and all care is given to enhancing life, not [...]

[ More ] August 6th, 2005 | No Comments | Posted in Blogathon 2005 |

Bring back the passion

My best friend and I had a wonderful time. I think that while she is still in the state she will be calling me regularly to let me know what she is up to and how she is fairing with her mom, whom she doesn’t get along well with. I really missed her and [...]

[ More ] July 25th, 2005 | No Comments | Posted in Role Dynamics |

Fear of becoming

I am becoming the person I had always hoped I could be. However, things are progressing so slowly that it makes me ask why I am not allowing changes into my life. Why am I rebelling at the small things that I know will make my life, my submission, my happiness the fullest measure? When [...]

[ More ] February 11th, 2005 | No Comments | Posted in Submission |
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