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Thank you everyone who commented on the Thursday Question about experience. It’s a challenging topic, to say the least.
Determining experience is a tricky for anyone. There are a lot of variables in deciding if you are experienced or not. I could say that I’m experienced in that I’ve been living in a D/s relationship [...]

We had a very stressful talk last night. It involved what happens in scenes with us because almost 50% of them end sooner than one of us would like them to. We have crashed really hard when this happens. The issue has two parts. For the longest time I just attributed it to being new [...]

So a little while ago luna and I celebrated a year of her being collared by me. This seems like as good a time as any to start more intensive training in our relationship.
Most of you will probably think that 3 and a quarter years is a long time to wait before getting into the [...]

Thank you for all the comments on the Thursday Question regarding restraints. They were fabulous to read!
I am a rope slut. I love the feel of rope binding me and restricting my movements. As soon as the rope touches my skin I get a sense of floating and happiness that I don’t get with any [...]

Master has been practicing with his new matching set of floggers I made him for Christmas. The first time he used them on me was this last weekend at a play party. He told everyone that this was just practice and not a full fledged scene and that he wasn’t that good at it.
He started [...]

Sexual desire is something that I take for granted. I have it, I wax and wan and sometimes I can’t get enough. But what I have noticed is that I have problems asking for what I want. Like Master is just supposed to know that I’d like him to finger my asshole, or rub my [...]

Dear Master,
It’s almost Christmas and I think I may have found my happy thoughts again. I’m sorry you had to endure a long bout of depression and crankiness. I’ve felt pretty good the past few days. The stirring of my sexual desire is definitely a good sign. I’ll be ravaging you soon enough I [...]

This week we talked about Fear Play and how it enhances your play. Come see what people had to say.
Do you participate in Fear Play with your partner? What is a reoccurring fear that is enhanced in your play?
Sarah says:
Sensory deprivation was my first bottoming experience, and I love it to this day. Hell, [...]

From Bonnie’s Spanko Brunch:
When receiving a spanking, what sounds do you or your partner make? Does the spankee scream, cry, shout, beg, whimper, laugh, moan, or maybe something else? To what extent does the reaction depend upon the circumstances (such as the reason for the spanking, the severity, the implements employed, words used by the [...]

A meme I’ve seen floating around…
1. Wrapping paper or gift bags? wrapping paper. I love wrapping presents!
2. Real tree or artificial? Artificial. I’m allergic to evergreen.
3. When do you put up the tree? The first weekend of December
4. When do you take the tree down? Weekend after New Year’s
5. Do you like eggnog? Love egg [...]

I’m instantly grumpy when Master asks me to wear a butt plug for awhile. I really hate wearing butt plugs just because. I’m fine with them during scene or during sex but just hate they way the feel when they are just sitting there, invading me. Making me feel icky and like I need to [...]

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From Submissive Journal Prompts:
“What one has not experienced, one will never understand in print.” -Isadora Duncan
I began my journey into D/s and BDSM in online chat rooms; namely those on IRC (BDSM-Net and Bondage.com). I knew nothing of what the lifestyle would be for me, only the fantasy that I lived when I got home [...]

This weekend was a lot of fun! Master and I went to a private play party where he got to tie me up. I was in a hogtie and really floaty for quite some time. I loved every minute of it.
We stayed in a suite that had a whirlpool and while Master got more time [...]

I’m sitting here feeling a bit off for today. Not really sure why, but Master has noticed that I’m agitated. I just can’t relax! I don’t feel like I have a lot to say really.
This weekend Master and I are staying in a whirlpool suite I’m sure that we will have lots of [...]

Numerous times on this blog I have mentioned just how patient Master is with me. I’ve battled a lot of emotions and physical struggles when all he wanted was to play, tie me up and spank me. He’s been quietly waiting for me to be in the mood so that the sex and blow job [...]

I just did one of the hardest things I think I’ve had to do so far in my submissive life. I went to Master and told him that I’ve been slacking on my rules and felt that I should be punished. Yesterday was my shaving day and instead of shaving it all off (save my [...]

We got so busy yesterday with friends after work that I didn’t get to blog like I should, I’m making it up now!
Master and I have the same discussions over and over. They are always about my failings when it comes to the  sexual ballpark of blowjobs.  You hear it on this blog all the [...]

Hardcore Romance asked a few questions of his readers and I’m willing to respond to them here in my blog.
What do you get out of bondage?
I get many things out of bondage. I feel secure or helpless. I love the feeling of tightness, the ache of muscles, the lovely marks. I get all floaty [...]