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I’m a stats whore. I love checking my stats almost 3 times a day (maybe more). I’ve watched my stats fall quite drastically since January. I’m not sure what has changed in my writing to cause it, but I know that I have a regular following and I have readers and commenters that I love. [...]

Yes, I’ve brought up this debate here before and I’ve read it in a hundred places too. Your blogs out there are teeming with it on occasion. Is the desire to be submissive natural or is it part of the way you were brought up? Especially when there was abuse involved. Those internal radars go [...]

It’s Sunday again, and you know what that means. I have stepped on the scale to see if this week will show improvement from last week. If you all remember I was up quite a bit because of my period but that’s over now. I was 318.5.
Today’s weigh in: 313.5
Yup, that’s right, I stood on [...]

This morning I got up to weigh feeling very hesitant to step on the scale. I’ve not been doing so well with my food intake at night and I’m also on my period so I knew I was bloated and the number was going to be off. I’m hoping that next week has a better [...]

Reward this week if I reach 60 mins exercise: $5 towards new sofa/futon ($245 to go)
Monday 11-5

Calories: 1923
Water: 65 oz.
Exercise: 0 minutes

Today I was off balance emotionally. I felt like I couldn’t get enough done, even though I accomplished almost everything on my to do list. I didn’t eat a healthy dinner (I had 3 [...]

Well, I’m up 1 pound for my weight loss goal. That means I can’t make that progress bar on the right go down any. That’s not to say there isn’t any progress through!
If you haven’t been with me since the beginning I have challenged myself to lose 10 lbs by the end of this year. [...]

Domestic Violence happens. It’s a sad fact of many relationships. The facts are devastating. This post will have some shocking stats but let’s put some real numbers to what we are talking about.
According the Silent Witness National Initiative:

About one third of female murder victims were killed by an intimate.
About 3% of male murder victims were [...]

Cliques are groups of people who want only to associate with themselves. They are in high schools, upper class neighborhoods and can grow anywhere else that people gather. They care only for themselves, gossip about everything, create assumptions about others not in the group and develop a self-pity party. They think they are cool and [...]

I asked Master to compile the stats for my websites last night so I could see how they are doing and I am so surprised and proud of my efforts as they are starting to pay off! I’d like to share a few of them here, so if you aren’t interested, don’t click on the [...]

What BDSM type are you?

Submissive — The one with the real power in the play, you like to get down on all fours or get tied ’till you turn purple, but you won’t hesitate to use the safe word if things start to get out of hand. Pretend all you want, you’re the master [...]