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I’ve just finished Kushiel’s Justice which if you have read the Kushiel’s Legacy Series you will want to pick this up. I’ve been waiting for 5 months for it come out in paperback and the day finally came. I love it and was doubly excited to see that there is a finally book coming soon [...]

Master and I have an idea for another website. It would be a rope bondage site. Something with tutorials and pictures, how-tos and reviews of suppliers, rope, books and other items. What we’d like to get from you is ideas for what would be useful in a site like that. How can we set it [...]

So a little while ago luna and I celebrated a year of her being collared by me. This seems like as good a time as any to start more intensive training in our relationship.
Most of you will probably think that 3 and a quarter years is a long time to wait before getting into the [...]

As we both already know, I am not naturally submissive. I don’t have the need to serve and please everyone all the time and worst of all I don’t stay in the right mindset to please you all the time either. It’s a balancing act of love and trust and desire for you that brings [...]

Master and I went out tonight and bought another dildo. I love dildos. I think Master leans more towards vibrators, but I love nice rubber cocks. We got a 8″ cinnamon colored dick that’s close to 2.5″ in diameter. Boy is it lots of fun! It has a suction cup base so Master’s mind went [...]

What is one of your goals at the moment as a submissive?
A huge goal I have right now was actually talked about a little bit in my post last night. I hope to stop questioning Master and doing something without asking questions, saying no or trying to put it off. I’ve got to accept that [...]

Rope bondage in this house has become a wonderful past time. Master really enjoys himself with the rope and the art that becomes my body. He says it is a different form of play then the impact or sexual play that we do because it’s more intellectual. I can tell that he really likes the [...]

Master has this very adorable behavior that I just have to smile about. When Master is feeling all lovable and wants to give me attention without actually giving me attention he will wink at me. It’s one of those “I’m thinking of you baby, just thought you should know” kind of winks. I love it. [...]

I am itching to do some programming, but since I have a few sites already, I really need to work on them. The issue I have is I should be writing essays for the sites, so that they have unique and interesting things on them. I’m just feeling that I don’t know enough about anything [...]

Master and I had a wonderfully hot passionate sex session last night. He has given me permission to share details if I so wish, but I don’t Maybe later on, while I do enjoy juicy details as much as the next person I just have to be in the right mood to write them. [...]

I’ve been finally given my next project for work. I can feel the pressure to get it done and pay the bills. I can sense the overworked feeling I will most likely have all next week from pushing myself to get something accomplished fast. I can see the look of worry on Master’s face as [...]

Master checked my IUD again and said it was back to it’s original length so I’m in no emergent hurry to get to the doctor.
I am going job hunting tomorrow, wish me luck. I hate job hunting.
I’ve been really bored lately. Any suggestions for things to do?
–luna

I wrote a poem yesterday. It doesn’t have a title yet, but I’m hoping that maybe it will soon. Suggestions are always welcome. I hope you enjoy it.
Oh beautiful Venus, come hear my song!
My muse, Yea, hallowed goddess, belong,
Amidst my lyrical passion filled quest;
Resolving love’s difficulty, may I be blessed.
Lovers in history search for an [...]

Tonight was a 2 fold event. Nothing particularly special to report during the day, just lazying around, enjoying a Law and Order: SVW Marathon. However tonight is what I want to talk about. During sex tonight we pulled out the new nipple clamps after my suggestion to try them out. He applied them [...]

I’m not going into great detail here, because it’s just too personal, but I am officially at the bottom of the mountain, looking up at the heavens and swearing. There is no where for me to go with my life but up. I can hope that this next trip to the top is easier to [...]

Ok, so I had a nice post planned for today but right now my toothache is horrid, so I’d like to know from everyone out there what are some ways to alleviate the pain? I can’t afford the dentist right now, it has to wait a bit, so I need ways to keep it from [...]

My best friend and I had a wonderful time. I think that while she is still in the state she will be calling me regularly to let me know what she is up to and how she is fairing with her mom, whom she doesn’t get along well with. I really missed her and [...]

It’s amazing how good I feel today when I’ve been doing practically nothing. My radio show this morning was classical music and I am surprised to be asked to do it again next Sunday. I didn’t expect people to appreciate it. I enjoyed it, and so there is a new show on Sundays. Hopefully my [...]

Ok, so I have just sat here for an hour planning out my new bedtime routine to hopefully begin making my life easier. I have taken my tips from FlyLady. I really love her site and thank cinnamon_girl_8 for suggesting it to me. So here is my bedtime routine as I hope to have it [...]

It’s been awhile since I said anything worthwhile, and I don’t know if today will be just as boring. I have a ton of work ahead of me this week. I have a paper, 2 presentations and a ton of reading. I just don’t know where to start and I’d like to work on some [...]