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Each relationship that we pursue is going to be unique and different. We can not compare one person’s dynamic with another’s even if we can agree that it is under the term of BDSM that we hold this relationship. In a recent comment on the post Speech Training there came up a need for me [...]

Thanksgiving is just a few short days away and then Master and I will spend a quiet day stuffing our faces with turkey and the trimmings. I’m hoping that we have some Netflix to watch or we can do another marathon movie watching. I know last year we did Harry Potter. Maybe we could do [...]

In this lifestyle theres one thing that is very common. That would be training. Everything from slave positions, behavior, to butt plug training, so i wanted to give you some great sites to look at and explore some great training.
Slave Positions: a good slave will take the time to learn all the slave positions. I [...]

Service is one of the most primary, the most basic of terms within the BDSM realm. Service can loosely be defined as an act or work done by one individual to the benefit another, but what does service mean within the BDSM realm.
The need to serve is the most fundamental desire within a slave; the [...]

It’s more than am I allowed to say no, I have a right to say no. I can say no at any time and stop whatever is happening. He also respects that there are times I just don’t feel like doing something and that also is reflected as a no.
Ultimately, a submissive has the power [...]